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My career is at a deadlock. I am wondering about changing. Is it too late?
My career is at a deadlock. I am wondering about changing. Is it too late?
Maybe you should do a quick introduction of yourself and your current state first, then we might be able to tell you about your prospects.It's not uncommon, some Korean companies also give gifts such as pens, notebooks, umbrellas,... I think that originated from these companies realise the purpose of gifts: small but essential, economize and make these companies become memorable...
I think that you need vocabulary and grammar to speak? I joined a group before, but I didn't understand what everybody said, so I kept silent. When I understood what they said, I didn't know to say anything. When I said, they didn't understand. I felt so bad. I haven't joined any group since then.
I also told my friend that we would spend time talking in English, but at that time we nearly didn't talk (although we talk a lot in Vietnamese), just looked at each other and laughed.![]()
Not quite exactly, common conversations is not a problem for me. I want to speak more fluent, so i just need someone to talk to.It's not uncommon, some Korean companies also give gifts such as pens, notebooks, umbrellas,... I think that originated from these companies realise the purpose of gifts: small but essential, economize and make these companies become memorable...
I think that you need vocabulary and grammar to speak? I joined a group before, but I didn't understand what everybody said, so I kept silent. When I understood what they said, I didn't know to say anything. When I said, they didn't understand. I felt so bad. I haven't joined any group since then.
I also told my friend that we would spend time talking in English, but at that time we nearly didn't talk (although we talk a lot in Vietnamese), just looked at each other and laughed.![]()
I'm 31 now, married, having 1 kid, and living at my parent's house. My total assets are about 1.5 billion vnd. I suppose there is not so much pressure on financial condition.
I am working as a sales executive (B2B) with a total income of 35 million per month.
My work is leisured and I have so much time to do my own stuff.
But recently, I usually feel empty and have no motivation at work.
There are no challenges and opportunities to develop myself anymore. So, i know it is time to change my job now. But i do not have enough motivation to step out of my safe and comfortable zone. Rebuilding a sales career, customer data requires a lot of time and effort.
Another way is changing completely, not in Sales field anymore. My friends affirm that i am better at logical thinking, and i should follow the kind of work requiring specific expertise like finance, iT. But it is really difficult at my age now.
I am really confused and depressed.
), but I believe you could make better use of the spare time at work. This is assuming you aren't strictly supervised during that period BTW.

Thank you. My expectation here is more likely about a listener, not immediate effective advice. You can not understand clearly my situation and opinion just through some words on an online forum,I'm probably far from being qualified to advise you (currently a jobless student), but I believe you could make better use of the spare time at work. This is assuming you aren't strictly supervised during that period BTW.
A lot of remote jobs and freelance work have popped up after the pandemic, especially in fields like IT, finances, marketing...They don't require a lot of commitment and longevity, so they are great for "testing the water" without compromising your main income. Jumping head-first into IT for example without proper experiences would be suicidal though, so I suggest combining or expanding your sales job right now into something like, digital marketing, to at least get the hang of it.
Another alternative would be investing some of your unused wealth into bitcoins, the stock market, real estate...They are highly risky but bring high rewards too, at the right time and place. Though I understand if you don't want to find yourself at the edge of the nearest bridge a month from now![]()
I know a Vozer who once commented here actually, @Business Process, she's working in the IT industry or at least something related to it, and also have businesses of her own. I have no doubt she's infinitely more experienced than I am, and will be able to help or point you in the right direction.
Well I hope this wall of text helps you in some way, and you will make something out of it![]()
I am practising speaking fluently by reading a sentence many times to pronounce it correctly and record a paragraph, then listen again, repeat until I feel it better (but it still sounds really bad).Not quite exactly, common conversations is not a problem for me. I want to speak more fluent, so i just need someone to talk to.

Oh, I was quite surprised when you mentioned me here. To be honest, I am still young, dumb and loser. Sometimes, even right now I still feel lost and doubt myself.I'm probably far from being qualified to advise you (currently a jobless student), but I believe you could make better use of the spare time at work. This is assuming you aren't strictly supervised during that period BTW.
A lot of remote jobs and freelance work have popped up after the pandemic, especially in fields like IT, finances, marketing...They don't require a lot of commitment and longevity, so they are great for "testing the water" without compromising your main income. Jumping head-first into IT for example without proper experiences would be suicidal though, so I suggest combining or expanding your sales job right now into something like, digital marketing, to at least get the hang of it.
Another alternative would be investing some of your unused wealth into bitcoins, the stock market, real estate...They are highly risky but bring high rewards too, at the right time and place. Though I understand if you don't want to find yourself at the edge of the nearest bridge a month from now![]()
I know a Vozer who once commented here actually, @Business Process, she's working in the IT industry or at least something related to it, and also have businesses of her own. I have no doubt she's infinitely more experienced than I am, and will be able to help or point you in the right direction.
Well I hope this wall of text helps you in some way, and you will make something out of it![]()

I am truly in no position to give you any advice since you are 10 years older than me. But this is my take on your situation.I'm 31 now, married, having 1 kid, and living at my parent's house. My total assets are about 1.5 billion vnd. I suppose there is not so much pressure on financial condition.
I am working as a sales executive (B2B) with a total income of 35 million per month.
My work is leisured and I have so much time to do my own stuff.
But recently, I usually feel empty and have no motivation at work.
There are no challenges and opportunities to develop myself anymore. So, i know it is time to change my job now. But i do not have enough motivation to step out of my safe and comfortable zone. Rebuilding a sales career, customer data requires a lot of time and effort.
Another way is changing completely, not in Sales field anymore. My friends affirm that i am better at logical thinking, and i should follow the kind of work requiring specific expertise like finance, iT. But it is really difficult at my age now.
I am really confused and depressed.
Thank you, that's only my own problem.I am truly in no position to give you any advice since you are 10 years older than me. But this is my take on your situation.
Normally I'll suggest you to say "**** it" and try new things. But you are married and with kid, which give you something that us single don't have: responsibility. I think you should talk about this with your wife before you make any decision. Because this is not your decision alone to make, this may affect your family and she will want a voice in this.
Personally, I think you should talk with her before you think more on this matter. Mainly because if you have dwelled too deep into the thought of switching job but your wife have another opinion, this may dampen your spirit even more.
Beside, I think you should not only say that you want to switch job but also tell her how you truly feels, but try not to put too much pressure on her.
To sum up my thought, this is something only you and your wife can figure out since you two share something none of us can truly understand unless we are in your shoes.
I know that my advices doesn't help you with your problem but I wish you good luck friend.
You mentioned that you have a lot of free time to do other stuff. So unless you absolutely detest your current job, why not keep it and try out a different career to see if it sits well with you? When you've got it figured out, you can safely make the switch. Even if money is not a problem, it's good to have a steady job to fall back on.Thank you, that's only my own problem.
My wife will unconditionally support my decision. Umm she does not have any opinion about my career, as well as I am happy and still care for our family.
I am making up my mind this weekend.
*your effort, so the recruiter is not that good at English I thinkfailed the test for a translator job today as my speaking and listening English is not good enough. I feel ashamed of myself and will try to improve my English to find a chance for a good job
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Maybe. I heard he/she is from Malaysia. However, that could be just a misspelling*your effort, so the recruiter is not that good at English I think![]()

Maybe. I heard he/she is from Malaysia. However, that could be just a misspelling![]()
Hi guys, is there any club/class or something like that but working online because I want to practice speaking. To be honest, i am quite good at listening but not speaking. I understand what people saying, however when i have to respond i'm always stucked at the tip of my tongue. It's more like you have the answer, but you can not speak it out loud.